Ok, in response to you all:
I am VERY willing to take criticism from people, IRL, I am in a fiction writing crit group. I am not like my old self and the past things that happened, they were a bad mistake on my part. I deeply apologize. Second, I am asking for constructive criticism on my guide and suggestions. I am simply aware that my way of character backstory creation is different and I think people will say I'm ruining new RPer's chances at making good characters. I know there will always be people who disagree with me, but I fear many people will say this. That is my concern.